when you fall out with your friends what do u do ?
6th February 2017ok so this week I have had many different thoughts running through my head to do with friends
my best friend has had many different traumatic things happen to her this year considering her family so when I tried to help her I was as sympathetic and as kind as I could be because although she had had a bad time I still wanted her to have fun and to try and take her mind of every thing
however she did not like the fact that I had another friend because she did not like her
so what I did was I tried to get them in together and focuss on things that they where both interested in so that I could try and make her so that she was nice but somtimes depending on the friends situation it doesn’t always work if it doesn’t work then sometimes you just have to let your friendship end but no mater how long it takes to rebuild friendships there are always other people
if you have a friend who you think needs cheering up or a bit of encouragement then all you have to do is be the best friend that you can be but also give them a litte bit of space if you think they need it but NEVER abandon them for someone else that was a mistake I once made but I have now learnt from it and learnt a valuble life lesson
by jetcharlie 🙂 ***
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You sound like a great friend. Everything you said is so true and will help so many people! Hope you're okay 🤗
hey dodnt worry about the things you said to her I am shure that if you try and explain how you are felling to her then you can solve the problem everyone says stuff they don't mean when the are sad or angry we cant change them but we can tryh and make them better maby you need some space to if you find it hard to talk to here about stuff like this them maby you shouldn't and just try and focus on the things you boath like and can talk to here about sometimes friendships don't allways work out but we can allways find other people me and my best friend arnt friends anymore because we have become different but there is nushually some way of sorting it all out I hope u are ok to anyrhing I can help u with ? xx
Hey jetcharlie - I really like your posts. Just wanted to say that I recently fell out with my best fririend too. I'm finding it really hard cos she's probably the only person I feel like I can really talk to. I'm goin to try and give her some space this week and see if that helps but like I get how it feels. I feel really bad about all the things I said to her but I can't take it back :( Hope your OK.