Cyber Bullying
Cyber Bullying is bullying through the internet. This can happen through:
- Social media
- Online gaming
- Chat rooms and forums
- Dating apps
…and any other interactive online platform.
It’s easier to send someone horrible or offensive messages from behind a screen than it is to say those things to someone’s face. So often these cyber bullies would not be so confident and abusive in person.
Other people are going through something themselves and are trying to get back some sort of control or exert their feelings onto someone else.
Texting – Sending nasty text messages
Sexting – Sending explicit images or videos of someone else. Read more about sexting.
Emails – Bullying someone through emails including computer viruses or links to harmful images
Social Media – This is probably the most common way in which someone could attempt to bully someone, especially someone you may not know already.
Online Gaming – Gaming online means that you are often interacting verbally or through instant chat with people, some of which are strangers. There is a great deal of anonymity linked with online gaming which makes it easier for bullies to get away with making horrible comments.
Chat rooms – Sending abusive messages to someone through a chat room or forum.
Some people enjoy the feeling of power and the thrill that comes with getting a reaction out of someone else. This is much the same as someone bullying in person. This is why one of the best things to do is to ignore any abusive messages you receive. If you can, try not to even open or read them and try your best not to respond to them even though, at times, it may be tempting.
When someone is being bullied online they may feel as though they should keep this to themselves to avoid more abuse from their bully or they are embarrassed. However, the best thing you can do is to tell someone else. Even if that person is a friend, family member, teacher or even better, if you call or contact a helpline.
It is often easy to give in and believe what these bullies are saying to you or about you but remember, they are wrong, you do not deserve it and you CAN make it stop.
Click on the buttons below to get more information and support for you or a friend or if the situation is serious and you feel like your safety or someone else’s safety is in danger don’t hesitate to contact the police.
Contact Childline for advice and support. They offer an online forum, helpline and counselling.
If you want to talk to someone or are worried about about a cyber bullying experience you have had you can call our Young People’s helpline.
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